{"id":3217,"date":"2025-09-01T12:57:16","date_gmt":"2025-09-01T09:57:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/?p=3217"},"modified":"2025-09-01T13:04:33","modified_gmt":"2025-09-01T10:04:33","slug":"cocuklarin-ruh-sagligini-kurban-etmeyelim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/2025\/09\/01\/cocuklarin-ruh-sagligini-kurban-etmeyelim\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Ruh Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Kurban Etmeyelim"},"content":{"rendered":"<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-left\"><strong>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Ruh Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Kurban Etmeyelim<\/strong><\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>Bayramlar \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in ailedeki herkesin bir araya geldi\u011fi, s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z \u015feker ve tatl\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcketildi\u011fi, aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinden al\u0131nan har\u00e7l\u0131klarla mutlu olunan g\u00fczel g\u00fcnlerdir. Medyada ya da \u00e7evrelerinde g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri kurban kesim sahnelerinden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 koruyamazsak; bayram, \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in birer travma olabilir. Kurban kesmenin anlam\u0131 ve bayram denildi\u011finde i\u00e7inde bulundurdu\u011fu kavramlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n i\u00e7inde bulunduklar\u0131 geli\u015fim basamaklar\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurularak anlat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>K\u00fclt\u00fcre ve Ya\u015fa G\u00f6re Etkiler De\u011fi\u015fiyor:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n kurban kesimini g\u00f6rmemesi ve sonucunda olu\u015fabilecek olas\u0131 olumsuz etkiler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 b\u00f6lge ve k\u00fclt\u00fcre g\u00f6re farkl\u0131l\u0131klar g\u00f6sterebilmektedir. Hayvanc\u0131l\u0131kla u\u011fra\u015fan b\u00f6lgelerde, daha \u00f6nce defalarca hayvan kesimini g\u00f6ren \u00e7ocuklar, kurban bayram\u0131nda hayvan kesimini g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, \u015fehirlerde ya\u015fayan ve eti sadece markette g\u00f6ren \u00e7ocuklar kadar olumsuz etkilenmeyebilirler. Fakat genel olarak \u00e7ocuklara kurban kesme davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 anlat\u0131rken ve dikkat etmemiz gereken noktalar&nbsp;ya\u015f gruplar\u0131na g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fmektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuklara Kurban Bayram\u0131n\u0131n Anlam\u0131n\u0131 ve G\u00fczelliklerini Anlat\u0131n:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Okul \u00f6ncesi d\u00f6nemdeki \u00e7ocuklarda soyut d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme yetene\u011fi geli\u015fmemi\u015ftir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce sistemleri &nbsp;g\u00f6rseldir. Bu y\u00fczden kurban kesiminin dini boyutunu ve \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc anlamalar\u0131 zordur. Bu d\u00f6nemdeki \u00e7ocuklara detayl\u0131 bilgi vermek yerine, kurban bayram\u0131n\u0131n &nbsp;sosyal boyutu \u00fczerinde durmak daha faydal\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n bayramda yard\u0131mla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, birbirlerini ziyaret ettiklerini, ihtiyac\u0131 olanlara et ve para yard\u0131m\u0131nda bulunuldu\u011fu anlat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle bayram s\u00fcresince kurbanlarla ilgili etkilenebilecekleri g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fclerden de uzak tutulmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuklar Kurban\u0131n Kesim An\u0131n\u0131 G\u00f6rmemeli:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <br>\u00c7ocu\u011fun Kurban Bayram\u0131&#8217;n\u0131, kurban kesmenin \u00f6nemini anlamas\u0131 i\u00e7in kesimi izlemesi gerekmez. Unutulmamas\u0131 gereken, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n bayram\u0131n soyut k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 anlamland\u0131rmaya ba\u015flasalar bile, ya\u015f\u0131 ne olursa olsun, bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun kesim an\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmemesi daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131d\u0131r. Kurban Bayram\u0131 sonras\u0131 uyku bozukluklar\u0131, korkular, g\u00fcvensizlikler, gece \u0131slatmalar\u0131 nedeni ile ba\u015fvurular art\u0131yor. B\u00f6yle durumlarda uzman yard\u0131m\u0131 almak do\u011frudur. \u00d6zel kesim yerlerinin oldu\u011fu, kesim i\u00e7in bir\u00e7ok se\u00e7enek sunuldu\u011fu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde hayvanlar\u0131 ac\u0131 \u00e7ektirerek kesmek ve bunu \u00e7ocuklara izlettirmek bir gelenek olamaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kesim s\u0131ras\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n olumsuz etkilenmesinin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mek i\u00e7in ebeveynlerin dikkat etmesi gereken hususlar:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <br><br>Soyut d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme kavram\u0131na eri\u015fmeyen \u00e7ocuklar kurban kesimini dini bir g\u00f6rev olarak de\u011fil, bir cinayet veya vah\u015fet olarak alg\u0131layabilirler. Hayvan\u0131n g\u00f6zlerinin ve ayaklar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u011flanarak \u00e7aresiz b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131, \u00e7ocuklarda duygusal y\u00f6nden \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcnt\u00fcye neden olabilir. Tersi bir etki de yaratabilecek bu durum sonucunda \u00e7ocuklarda sald\u0131rgan tav\u0131rlar uyanabilir ve bu durum \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ba\u015fka hayvanlara zarar vermesine neden olabilir. \u00d6ld\u00fcrme bilincine sahip olmayan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun yan\u0131nda ebeveynleri taraf\u0131ndan bir hayvan\u0131n kesilmesi veya kesilmesine m\u00fcsaade edilmesi, \u00e7ocuk taraf\u0131ndan hayvanlar\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmesinin do\u011fru bir davran\u0131\u015f olarak alg\u0131lamas\u0131na neden olabilir. Ayr\u0131ca bu durum \u00e7ocuklarda et yememeye sebep olabilir. Kurban kesimine \u015fahit olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n uyku d\u00fczenleri bozulabilir, k\u00e2buslar g\u00f6rebilir ve hayvanlara kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri tamamen de\u011fi\u015febilir. \u00c7ocuklara \u00f6zellikle bayram haftas\u0131 s\u00fcresince haber b\u00fcltenleri de seyrettirilmemelidir.\u00a0Kurban kesiminde ebeveynler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 ifadeler kullanmal\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En i\u00e7ten sevgilerimle\u2026\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uzm. Kinik Psikolog LEYLA KILI\u00c7<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n Ruh Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Kurban Etmeyelim Bayramlar \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in ailedeki herkesin bir araya geldi\u011fi, s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z \u015feker ve tatl\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcketildi\u011fi, aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinden al\u0131nan har\u00e7l\u0131klarla mutlu olunan g\u00fczel g\u00fcnlerdir. Medyada ya da \u00e7evrelerinde g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri kurban kesim sahnelerinden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 koruyamazsak; bayram, \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in birer travma olabilir. Kurban kesmenin anlam\u0131 ve bayram denildi\u011finde i\u00e7inde bulundurdu\u011fu kavramlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n i\u00e7inde bulunduklar\u0131 geli\u015fim&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3226,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3217","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-leyla-kilic"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3217","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3217"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3217\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3226"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3217"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3217"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psikologleylakilic.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3217"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}